We are already FIVE days into 2012 and I haven't even taken down my Christmas tree!
In my mind, I've broken my own self-inflicted rule: "The Christmas tree and decorations must be taken down and stored away by January 1st." Sometimes life in a blended family can be so crazy and hectic, we have trouble staying ahead of our chaos and rules. And guess what? My family didn't fall apart on January 2nd because the tree was still up...in fact, no one but me even noticed or cared.
The good news is the tree and the rest of my family chaos will be addressed. Stepmom, go easy on yourself. Holidays in a blended family can stretch your negotiating skills and patience to the breaking point. By the time the presents are opened and mess cleared away, we need a break of a different kind.
The kids are back in school, so fix yourself a hot cup of tea, a sappy novel and relax under the twinkling Christmas tree lights. God's mercies are new every morning and they will be waiting for you tomorrow or this weekend when you're ready to tackle that tree. Enjoy!
